Arcanum 3 in the Destiny Matrix: Care Without Taking Over /destiny-matrix-arcanum-3 Copy these prompts into a private note, or download the text file. This page has no fields that submit your answers. 1. Ask what would actually help; record the recipient’s answer rather than substituting your own plan. __________________________________________________ 2. State one contribution you can offer and one limit on your time or resources. __________________________________________________ 3. Leave a choice that belongs to the recipient, including the choice to decline. __________________________________________________ 4. Identify the task each person still owns so that help does not silently transfer all responsibility. __________________________________________________ 5. Choose a moment to check whether the arrangement remains useful to both people. __________________________________________________ Original Matrix of Destiny editorial exercise; invented situation, not a testimonial