FRIENDSHIP CHECK-IN A reflection worksheet from Matrix of Destiny (matrixofdestiny.io). This worksheet does not score a friendship or predict its future. One recent situation (observable facts, not inferred motives): Person A: What did I expect? Had I stated it? Person B: What did I expect? Had I stated it? Availability: What contact rhythm is realistic for each of us? Reciprocity: What effort would each of us find meaningful? Privacy: What information should remain between us? One adjustment we both accept: One boundary we need to respect: When we will check how the agreement worked: A counterexample: When did a similar situation go well? If a chart theme was useful, what question did it help us ask? If it was unhelpful, what evidence made us set it aside? Chart meanings are symbolic editorial prompts, not facts about a friend. Use each person's stated needs and observed behavior as the basis for agreements.